D

Dating, 29

Decision making, on household purchases, 38

Degler, Carl, 18 , 28

Democracy, 4 , 5 , 13

Dependence: economic, 51 , 59 , 111 , 161;

emotional, 46 , 74;

on friends, 46 , 74 , 79 -80, 111 -12, 162;

individuality and, 109 -11;

moral constraint and, 160

Disclosure. See Self-disclosure

Discretion: in friendship, 112 -13, 117 , 119 -21. See also Constraints

Division of labor, sexual, 68 , 99 , 100 , 110

Divorce, 139 -40, 141;

and companionate marriage, 21;

friends and, 75 -76, 86 , 139 -40, 147 -48, 166;

in interview sample, 173

Domesticity: ideology of, 15 , 19 -22, 26 -27, 155;

unique marriage value of, 48 -49, 52

Douglas, Ann, 28 n-29n

Dreams, talk about, 70 , 106 -9

DuBois, Cora, 61 , 63