| The Family Silver |
| PREFACE |
| INTRODUCTION |
 | PART ONE PERSONAL SETTINGS |
| One Gender Roles Among Women |
| • | Discomforts With Gender Ambiguity |
| • | On Being Mistaken For A Man |
| • | The Clothes Of My Gender |
| • | The Hurt Of Being Called A Man |
| • | Responses To Femme And Butch Styles In Women |
| • | Lesbian In A Heterosexual World |
| • | Conclusions |
 | Two Becoming A Lesbian |
| Three The Family Silver |
| Four The Passing Down Of Sorrow |
| PART TWO ACADEMIC SETTINGS |
| Five Hurts Of The System |
| Six Saying No To A Man |
| • | Seven Lesbian In Academe |
| PART THREE FEMINIST TEACHING |
| Eight A Feminist Class |
| Nine Separatism |
| Ten Desires For An Ideal Community Of Women |