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Alcimede's Pessimistic Speech (278–94)
In her plaintive address to her son, Alcimede says that she wants to die and identifies the two greatest fears she has for an old age without Jason: lack of burial by her own son and abandonment in an empty home like a slave because of the loss of the one who provided her with distinction in Iolcan society:
when I heard King Pelias
uttering the wicked command that would cause me such ruin,
so that you yourself would have buried me with your own hands,
my son. For this was the only desire I still had
of you; I have long ago received all the other rewards a child owes a
parent. As it is, I, who before was envied by the Achæan women,
will be abandoned like a slave in an empty palace,
wasting away with ill-starred longing for you, because of whom
I had honor and glory in the past, for whom alone
I, first and last, loosened the girdle of childbirth. For
the goddess Eileithyia adamantly forbade my having many chil-
dren.
O what misery is mine! I did not reckon even in my wildest dreams
that Phrixus's salvation would become my demise.
Commentators have duly observed and recorded the relevant verbal and conceptual echoes in Alcimede's speech (see below), but have not called attention to the fact that the most important of these recall from different angles the effect that the death of Hector had on his family, especially on Andromache.
First of all, Alcimede opens her speech with the wish that she had died when she first heard of the expedition, so that Jason would have been able to bury her; this scenario is all the more desirable since, as far as Alcimede is concerned, Jason has discharged all his other responsibilities (i.e., the 
mentioned in line 283). In the Iliad , Andromache similarly wished for death when faced with the prospect of losing Hector ( 
, Il. 6.410b–11a; cf. 22.481);[15] her desperate wish, similar to that of Alcimede, arises from her lack of 
; for Achilles had killed Andromache's entire family, leaving Hector as her only protector and source of comfort (cf. Il. 6.411b–30). Second, Alcimede claims that the departure of Jason will result in her being left behind as a slave ( 
, 285). In her final speech in the Iliad (24.725–45), Andromache imagines herself and Astyanax being led off into slavery (731–34), the very thing that Hector feared would happen (cf. Il. 6.447–65), and concludes that her husband's death will result in grievous sorrows being left behind for her to face: 
(24.742).[16] Similarity of theme (a death wish and the fear of slavery, both resulting from the lack of a 
) and in the second case verbal reminiscence invite the reader to see Andromache's tragic situation as the literary backdrop for Alcimede's pitiful lament.
Apollonius evidently wants the audience to compare Alcimede's anxiety over the departure of Jason with Andromache's fears for herself and Astyanax in the aftermath of Hector's death. With this in mind the Homeric hapax legomenon 
(270) in the previous simile comparing Alcimede to the little girl takes on greater significance.[17] The rare participial form describes the
little girl's pathetic response to her want of a 
in the face of a wicked stepmother: she falls crying into the arms of her nurse. 
occurs only once in the Homeric corpus, also in a simile, in which the poet compares Odysseus's crying upon hearing Demodocus's story of the Trojan Horse to a woman lamenting the death of her husband in war:[18]
The celebrated poet [sc. Demodocus] sang this song. Odysseus
melted, and tears streamed from his eyes down his cheeks.
Just as a woman laments her dear husband, falling down
upon him ,
who fell before the eyes of his city and people
as he tried to protect his city and children from the piteous day.
Seeing him in the throes of death, she
holds him in her arms, shrieking loudly. Behind her, others
striking her back and shoulders with their spears
lead her into slavery, to a life of pain and lamentation;
her cheeks are sunken from pitiable grief.
Just like this Odysseus shed a pitiful tear from beneath his brows.
The picture of a woman grieving for her dying husband, whose duty it was to ward off the day of slavery from city and children, closely parallels Andromache's situation at the conclusion of the Iliad ; so much so that Apollonius well might have seen in the Odyssean text an allusion to the fates of Andromache and Hector. Be that as it may, both the specific references to Andromache's loss of Hector and this allusion to the unidentified woman in the Odyssey prompt the reader to associate Alcimede's response to Jason's departure with the grief of a wife for a dead husband, and in particular, of Andromache for Hector.