| The Family Silver |
| PREFACE |
| INTRODUCTION |
 | PART ONE PERSONAL SETTINGS |
 | One Gender Roles Among Women |
| Two Becoming A Lesbian |
| Three The Family Silver |
| Four The Passing Down Of Sorrow |
| • | My Mother's Pain |
| • | Inner Struggles |
| • | Leaving My Mother's House |
| • | Female Grief And Strength |
| PART TWO ACADEMIC SETTINGS |
| Five Hurts Of The System |
| Six Saying No To A Man |
| • | Seven Lesbian In Academe |
| PART THREE FEMINIST TEACHING |
| Eight A Feminist Class |
| Nine Separatism |
| Ten Desires For An Ideal Community Of Women |